What Planet Is My Husband From?

So many times I hear us women complain about our husbands and what they are not doing right.  I can’t help to wonder if the problem could be us and maybe not them?

It seems as if we (women) have it all figured out but our reluctant significant other cannot (for some will not) get on the same page.  Do they not see that what we are doing is for the sake of our marriage and if they would just do it the logical way everything will be alright?  Sometimes things can be so frustrating that it makes you wonder what planet is he from.  So how do we get him to help us make our marriage run on a smooth course?

First we must put our ideas and thoughts on the back banner and find out his.  Yes it’s true they do have thoughts and ideas.  Even though they keep it in their heads all day long.  We must also realize that our way is not the right way.  It’s simply one way to get to the destination.  If we are conscious that there are infact two people in this marriage and therefore there can be mutliple solutions then maybe, just maybe we can get on the same page.  Maybe not the solution, but the same page.

Another solution is to be willing to try his idea.  If it doesn’t work then so be it.  Don’t rub it in his face either.  Simply come up with a new idea (maybe your idea that you should have tried in the first place) and keep it moving.

Remember there is no one can tell you what you should do.  What works for one may not work for the other.  Sit back listen to your husband and come up with a solution that works for the both of you not just one.  It’s your marriage, who cares what people think.

Are men really from a different planet? How do you get your husband on the same page?

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